Monday, June 18, 2007

WHEN REALITY SPEAKS..........

"When reality speaks, reflections keeps silent and Love hides behind these two"

JK

It's all money that matters more than the relationship. and this tendency is on an increase these days. Money has become honey and Love has become Liability, that being the scenario, how do you expect Love from your close knits ? Its all now gone with winds, leaving scars and wounds in the heart and mind - any one for that matter prefers honey to liability-the fact remains fact and one has to accept this reality with modesty, without loosing heart and mind and remain matter of fact to oneself and matter of convenience and comfort to others in the knit.

Values of life and living is gradually eroding within and amongst relatives, money taking its dominant position in dictating terms, unless the affected and involved ones realise this truth it is very difficult to set right the situation and another few generations things will move from bad to worst as far as relationship with reference to Love, affection,concern to each other finding no way and solution for a better understanding and affectionate and lovable living.

Here it reminds me of an article posted in my blog way back in Nov 2006 titled "YOU OWE MORE THAN WHAT YOU OWN IN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE' and thought I will reproduce same for the benefit of the readers and those who wish will have the WILL and for other I just feel sorry.

JK

YOU OWE MORE THAN WHAT YOU OWN IN YOUR
PERSONAL LIFE


This time for a change I opted for a different and typical subject for the readers. I had been contemplating for quite sometimes on the subject in depth and as a result arose the subject title. I have a reasonable hope that readers will relish reading this, understand and grasp the essence in its right perspective and spirit to retain in mind rather than reading and erasing from the mind.


I have come across good number people and had personal interaction with them who are proud, happy, delighted and enjoys a sense of possession of what they own-be it money, wealth, properties, shares, stocks, bullions etc. Many of them are enthusiastic, exuberant, vibrant and happy over what all they own- One can keep a record of what all he owns and prepare a statement of one’s owning and at one point of time in life execute will to bequeath the owning to kith and kin-that being the one side of the life.




As a matter of fact no body owns anything whatsoever as mentioned above and we are all
temporary custodians of what we consider to own. It’s absolutely true if only one thinks deeper and realizes this truth. On the contrary we owe a lot to various others. You owe a lot to the divine supreme who brought to you to this world in human form. You owe a lot to your parents who were instrumental and taken every bit of care and nurtured untiringly for what you are today. You owe a lot to your best half (your wife) who is instrumental, influential and inspirational for what you are going to be in future, you will owe a lot to your children for what you are going to be at later part of your life and last but not least you owe a lot to yourself and you have to pay back by yourself to wipe off the owes (contemplate to contemper then you will realize what it means) it goes on like this never ending and immeasurable. I for one thing do not believe in monitory gains, compliances and compromises to pledge or give up the family relationship supposed to be retained clean and clear.

You make an attempt to keep a record of what all you owe to others- It will be a next to impossible task unlike maintaining a record of your owning.
Have you ever come across a person executing a will of what all he owe and to bequeath to his successors? According to me it’s never happened. If at all it happens as a rarest of rare event will one accept it? Not at all. Therefore it becomes imperative on the part of man to make best of efforts to clear what he owe to others to the best possible extent before bidding bye to his physical existence.

How do you clear what you owe to the divine supreme? It is he who has been kind and benevolent enough for all that you own. But for his kindness and consideration just imagine what you could have been? A big cipher. Think of him, pray in praise of him and let your prayer be of thanks giving, spent some time with him in solitude and silence daily, converse with him in silence daily and thereby make a beginning to pay back what you owe to him.

How do you pay back what you owe to your parents? Be kind and considerate towards them, express your love to them, show them your glowing and smiling face always, give them your love and affection, and always refrain from causing hurt to their feelings and sentiments (sentiments and feelings become particularly precious as one grows old)-when they are emotionally run down, re-charge and lift them up with sweet words of encouragement, comfort, soothing and old age motivation. It is not going to cost you monetarily- and even if one wants to repay what he owes to parents in monitory terms one can never achieve because it is beyond one’s capacity and reach to pay back to parents in monitory terms-just hold on to this and retain in mind.

How do you pay back what you owe to your best half? This is not that difficult according to me. Sharing is caring. You have to share all her moments with care. Express your true love and implement the true love in day-to-day life. Be concerned about her rather than worrying about her. For a change, change the policy of GIVE AND TAKE instead makes it GIVE AND ACCEPT (I hope your able to distinctly identify the difference between take and accept.). Having accepted her as best part of your life keep her in best form and mood always. Look her as A THING OF BEAUTY- to commensurate with the age-old saying A THING OF BEAUTY IS JOY FOR EVER and maintain this tempo. Outlook and attitude always. Concede to her reasonable desires and ambitions for mutual benefit and betterment of both. If you really follow caring is sharing policy coupled with taking care of her needs and moods you will not land up piling up of owes.

Now coming to children, you owe them much more than what you owe to others. It is on your own sweet will, wish and interest; you gave birth and brought them to this earth. Therefore it is imperative and essential and its your responsibility to bring them up in a nice and befitting manner with good academics, instill in them good values of living, ethics and etiquettes and make the world smile at them for their good conduct, deed and good living. This is the only stage in life of a man wherein he OWES A LOT AND OWN A LOT (of responsibility) in upbringing them in a perfect and harmonious way of living.

Similarly with every relationship in your personal life you owe more than what you own to maintain perfect harmony and understanding to lead a purposeful living. It is only the question of understanding this truth at the appropriate and right time at various stages of life so that you make a beginning to pay back rather than allowing to pile up owe and make it impossible to pay back.
Even though money, wealth etc. is every thing into-days living, it’s not ultimate. Ultimate is some thing totally distinct and different and one has to take careful initiative and interest to understand and abide by its ethics and principles to reap the incentive. What you own at the end will not accompany you when you quit this world but what you owe will not leave you and it will follow you and be with you in your come next on this earth. Therefore do not allow even the shade of the owe to accompany you. Leave this world with virtue, wisdom, knowledge and ethics. They will remain with you and accompany you when you come back to this earth again and will do lot of good to you and your succeeding generation.

Thanking you all readers and looking forward to your valuable feedback for improvement.

J.KANNAN

Monday, June 04, 2007

CULMINATION OF KNOWLEDGE

CULMINATION OF KNOWLEDGE TRANSFORMS THE FRAIL FORM OF EMOTION INTO A PILLAR OF STRENGTH.

It is the knowledge of our real self- that’s culmination of knowledge. We know our outer self consists of our physical body and inner self consists of our mind and intellect. But many of us don’t know our real self. Our real self is supreme and we know it not- here comes the culmination of knowledge to give us the knowledge of our real self and with that knowledge one can attain in abundance, peace and happiness.

THE BEAUTY OF HUMAN ACTIVITY IS RENUNCIATION IN ACTION, NOT RENUNCIATION OF ACTION.

Culmination of knowledge is systematic and formulation of knowledge of life and living, by revealing your real self, true nature and your relationship with the world. You are divine, no matter what you appear to be- a sinner or a saint. Divinity is the core of your personality and the culmination of the knowledge helps you to, unfold our divinity to gain the knowledge of intrinsic self and to lead a living with perfect harmony, peace and bliss.

THE LAW OF LIFE IS THAT YOUR MIND SHOULD BE AT REST WHILE YOUR BODY IS ENGAGED IN ACTION.

Culmination of the knowledge makes us to think for our selves , helps to analyze, investigate and realize the essence of life and experience the fundamental truth of life .
Think for yourself; do not allow the external forces to do your thinking. Do not function on blind faith and mechanical rituals-known as spiritual suicide. The role of the culmination of the knowledge is to pull man out of the spiritual suicide, infatuation, and delusion and educate him on eternities.

YOUR HOME SHOULD BE THE CENTRE AND NOT THE BOUNDARY OF YOUR AFFECTION.
Thro’ individual study, reflection and judgment, generations after generations experienced the fundamental truth of life. This was followed by the enthusiastic spiritual persons bringing out their own abridged version of truth, considered as feeble readings of the original truth. (To go with the saying “ A truth re-told becomes a Lie”). People lost the independent reflection and judgment. Spiritual education became servile.

In the holy name of religion, fanatic superstition and the parasitic ideas infested the mankind and what you see for yourself is the sad state of the world today. Caste, Creed and sects are the ghosts, haunting mankind today. The great science of religion has been reduced to mere allegiance to personalities governed by maxims and mandates.

SPIRITUAL PRACTICE IS NOT A PART TIME HOBBY BUT A FULLTIME AWARENESS OF TRUTH.

Youngsters need not be dictated and pestered by doctrines and dogmas,” thou salts” and “thou shalts not”, as whatever is forced is not forceful. The higher values of religion have to be presented systematically and scientifically to the modern intellects. The science and philosophy of culmination of knowledge is the present requirement of mankind-the process may be slow but good results are for sure.

EVERY MAN GETS WHAT HE DESERVES, NOT WHAT HE DESIRES.

Culmination of knowledge has positive approach to life. It presents and represents the highest knowledge of life and practical living. Learn this knowledge to command peace and dynamism in one breath. Devoid of worry, anxiety, stress and strain and make your life worth living-breath eternal air and fulfill your mission in life

Gain the living knowledge of truth, acquaint yourself with spiritual laws of life, it may not be entertaining always, still you have to approach like a college student pursuing their study-take up and study each word of knowledge and idea carefully, reflect deeply and make it your own and apply this knowledge in your life and you will definitely discover the primeval source of happiness and bliss right with in you.

GIVE YOUR PERSONALITY A LIFT TO YOUR REAL BEING, YOU WILL THEN LIFT THE WHOLE WORLD.

And do remember the following versus of Srimad Bhagavad-Gita

“Yada yada hi dharmasya glanir bhavati Bharata
Abhyutthanam adaharmasya tada tmanan srjamy aham” (Ch4 .7)

“Parithranaya sadhunam vinasaya ca duskritam
Dharma-samsthapanarthaya sambhavami yuge yuge”

GOD IS TRUTH AND TRUTH EVER EXISTS.