AN IDEAL HUSBAND AND A RIGHTIOUS WIFE

AN IDEAL HUSBAND AND A RIGHTIOUS WIFE


According to ancient Indian philosophy ,Culture and  heritage  AN IDEAL HUSBAND AND A RIGHTIOUS WIFE (In Indian divine language i.e. in Sanskrit it is referred to as Uthmapurushan and Dharma Pathni) makes a perfect couple paving way for a healthy living and prosperous family. I find no reason and justification why this concept cannot be accepted and followed by ROW (No doubt many a country has begun to follow the system in a snail’s pace).The end result would be an ideal, prosperous, healthy and a unique family on its path to progress, prosperity and phenomenal growth.

A man (husband) has to lead and live a life filled with love, ethics, cleanliness, faith, trust, good understanding and care for the good cause and sake of his family. Have concern for each and every member of his family without discrimination and perform his duties with care and caution to reach the pinnacle of peace, prosperity and contentment Being the head of the family he is responsible and accountable for the overall development and growth of the family in an IDEAL manner. Ideal is a sober word with soft meanings and man has to remain sober and soft at all times during the course of his living.

The woman (wife) on the other hand is expected to assist the man in performance of his duties as mentioned above, apart from performing her duties in a rightful and righteous manner without causing even an iota of damages to the sentiments and thoughts of one and all in the family-herein ethics, love and divinity plays a vital role, to be borne in mind at all times.

As a matter of fact, wife plays a lead role in the well being and prosperity of the whole family (a traditionally accepted truth) but of course in necessity in consultation and consent of the husband as she is considered and accepted as Goddess of wealth and prosperity (known as MAHALASHMI) and by following the traditionally prescribed way of living (as mentioned above) nothing in the world can prevent her from attaining the prosperity and well being of the family. The husband being an ideal man should always extend his whole hearted support to the wife to achieve her ultimate goal for the welfare and well being of the family. In a nutshell it’s a team effort and work, mixed with ideal and righteous by the husband and wife.

How do you build and maintain an excellent future generation? The wife (mother for children) plays an important role in this respect. As a mother she holds more responsibility in bringing up the children in the right manner with high values of Love higher values of Ethics and highest values Living It should be begun at grass root level so that the edifice of moral values, ethical values, values of dignity, self respect, respect for others etc are instilled in the children from early child-hood itself. It’s not a short term assignment but a duty extends for long time, and at all times she seeks the man’s support and guidance, it must be extended and accorded with out a second thought. Righteous is a powerful word and to fulfill the powerful task the woman has to be righteously powerful to perform and fulfill her duties towards the family.

The relationship of man and woman (husband and wife) is so close knit if not handled with duty bound, devotion and dedication ,will loosen the close knit strings of relationship causing deterioration. Let the purpose of living together of man and woman be fulfilled the way it should be in accordance with the tradition, heritage and culture surrounded by ethics and elegance always and let man and woman together pave way for their own perfect living and to build an excellent and exciting future generation.

May God bless all couples and their children for an exciting and excellent living and future?

J.KANNAN