Every person has a reason.........

Please try to understand...........Every person has a reason.........
It is easy to speak negatively when we do not like something about someone. We first react to them in our mind and so tend to get angry.Our words and behaviour would then naturally be negative and insulting too. This further widens the gap and breaks the relationship. When
someone does something undesired, we first need to try and understand his behaviour. Every person has a reason to behave the way he does. If we can't understand at that time, we at least need to give it time.The more we react to the other person and his behaviour, the greater
the distance that is created. So we need to begin the first step of positiveity by recognizing some positiveity in him................

J.KANNAN, M.Com, FIATA

"WE DON'T THINK TO BREATHE
WE BREATHE TO THINK"

A to Z of Living Life DILIGENTLY.............

A to Z of Living Life DILIGENTLY.............

REMEMBER....................Life is like an Ice Cream & Enjoy it before it melts......&........

Wishing ..........................

All a Very Good Day

Believe in Yourself.

Consider things from every angle and from others points of view.

Dare to dream Big.

Energy, Excitement and Enthusiasm are in your blood.

Family and Friends are hidden treasures and enjoy these riches.

Give more than you have planned to.

Have a good sense of humour.

Ignore Criticism, Ridicule and Discouragement from others.

Jump on Problems because they are Opportunities in disguise.

Keep up the good work however hard it may seem.

Love yourself, just as you are.

Make Impossibility a Possibility.

Never lie, cheat or steal, always strike a fair deal.

Open your eyes and see things as they really are.

Prefect Practice makes you perfect.

Quitters never Win and Winners never Quit.

Reward yourself for every small success and achievement.

Stop Wasting your Time and Procrastinating important Goals.

Take control of your Life and your Goals.

Understand so that you could be Understood.

Visualize your Goals and Dreams everyday.

Win over your own weaknesses and make them as your Strengths.

Xccelerate your efforts.

Yes Yes Yes, you Can and You Will.......&.....

Zap your Stress and........................ Enjoy your Life...

 

J.KANNAN, M.Com, FIATA

"WE DON'T THINK TO BREATHE

 WE BREATHE TO THINK"

HOW TO INCREASE POSITIVE ENERGY AT HOME???...

 Good Morning My Dear Friends..................&................

HOW TO INCREASE POSITIVE ENERGY AT HOME???...............DO AS FOLLOWS.......

1) Open all windows in the house and allow fresh air and sunshine to enter the house. Free flowing air and sun are negative energy removers.

2. Dispose of all the old unwanted things lying in the house. Clutter is a negativity magnet. It attracts and accumulates negative energy in the house.

3). Walking barefoot in the house helps all your negative energy to be absorbed by the earth.

Grounding is important to keep the energy balance in our body.

4) In the olden days, foot wears were kept out of the house. People used to enter the house only after washing feet with water. This action ensures that all the negativity remains outside or are grounded by earth and does not enter the house. Now it has become difficult to keep the footwear outside. So preferably remove them near the entrance door.

5) Go out in the open air. Take walks in the garden or open ground. Being amongst nature re-energizes or charges you fully.

6) Sweeping the floor also ensures that the negative energies are shaken and moved out with the dirt.

7) Rock salt is another negativity remover. Wash or mop your floor with a fistful rock salt in a bucket of water. This ensures that every nook and corner of the house is rid of negative energy.

8) Potted plants or trees around your house or society also ensures more positive energy in the house and area.

9) Bathing or Soaking your legs and hands in rock salt water once in a while removes the negativity attached to your body and cleanse your aura.

11) Repetition of Prayers, increases the positive vibrations in the house. 100%

11) Keep your thoughts, action and speech Positive. Negative thoughts will bring in negative vibes. So avoid all negative thoughts, speech and actions.

12) Keep your house well lit and illuminated. Light removes negativity.

13) Keep faith in God and in yourself............... You are the Creator of your own destiny by the Choices you make.............&............. STAY HAPPY..............& Enjoy an EXCELLENT WEEK END with your dear one's................

J.KANNAN, M.Com, FIATA

"WE DON'T THINK TO BREATHE

 WE BREATHE TO THINK"

Wife on Vacation..........A Lighter Vein READ....to Enjoy.

Wife on Vacation..........A Lighter Vein READ....to Enjoy.

Departure Instructions Note from Wife to Husband...

I am going to My Mom's Place for 6-7 days with kids These are the instructions and warning for you...
1 - No need to call your friends and cousins.
Last time I got 4 large pizza bills beneath the sofa...

2 - Don't forget mobile on the soap holder in the bathroom like last time...
Why would anyone need a mobile in the bathroom.??

3 - Keep your specs in the box...
Last time around it was found in the refrigerator.

4 - Salary already paid to maid.
No need to be extra generous.

5 - Don't disturb neighbors early in the morning asking if they have got newspaper or not?? Our newspaper vendor is different from theirs. And our laundry person and milkman are also different.

6 - Your Underwear are on left side of wardrobe and on right side are kid's...
Like last time, don't say I was uncomfortable at work....

7 - All reports have been checked and you are alright.
No need to go to that lady doctor again and again.

8 - My sister and Bhabhi's birthdays have gone last month which you already attended.
No need to go to them at midnight and wish belated happy birthday.

9 - Have cut off WiFi for 10 days.
So sleep early....

10 - Stop smiling and being happy...
as Mrs. Khanna, Mrs. Avasthi, Mrs. Kulkarni, Mrs. Trivedi, Mrs. Ansari, Mrs. Rastogi, Mrs. Chatteerjee... They all will be out of station in this period.

And last but not the least.
11 - Don't try to be over smart.. I will be back anytime without informing you..............OK!!!!!!

Happy Vacations!!!

Nothing is permanent............... &.......Think for YOU.......for a CHANGE.........

Nothing is permanent............... &.......Think for YOU.......for a CHANGE.........

Nothing is permanent............Therefore, Don’t stress yourself too much because no matter how bad the situation is…........It has to change and it will change........Please learn to say "NO" without feeling guilty.....as setting boundaries is healthy for you. You need to learn to respect and take care of yourself...............The past should be parceled and left in the past, or else it may destroy your future. Live your life for what tomorrow has to offer....and.... not for what yesterday has taken away..............&..............Sometimes the best thing you do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe, and have faith that everything will work out for the best............FOR YOU.

 

J.KANNAN, M.Com, FIATA

"WE DON'T THINK TO BREATHE

 WE BREATHE TO THINK"

What's..............."BUSINESS ETHICS????...VERY SIMPLE....READ TO KNOW TO ADHERE TO.....

My Dear & Beloved Friends................GOOD DAY...........&.........

UNDERSTANDING  OF............. MAY NOT KNOWN THINGS ARE VERY GOOD FOR SELF DEVELOPMENT....DEVELOPMENT OF THE ORGANISATION..... &

What's..............."BUSINESS ETHICS????...VERY SIMPLE....READ TO KNOW TO ADHERE TO.....

Ethics is knowing the difference between what you HAVE A RIGHT TO DO ........ and .........WHAT IS RIGHT TO DO.  Knowing Ethics or simple honesty is the building blocks upon which our whole society is based and................. ALWAYS REMEMBER...............  business is a part of our society, and it is integral to the practice of being able to conduct business,............................. YOU HAVE A SET OF HONEST STANDARDS..........AND A TEAM OF HONEST........ DEDICATED....&....LOYAL TO CUSTOMERS PEOPLE TO WORK  WITH YOU..... FOR THE ORGANISATION...........TRY & PRACTICE THESE SUBTLE RULES & YOU WILL BE STARTLED TO WATCH AMAZING GROWTH OF THE ORGANISATION WITH TOTAL SELF CONTENTMENT................& MAY GOD BLESS ALL TO ACHIEVE THIS GREAT GOAL WITH SIMPLE FORMULA. 

Enjoy a .........LOVELY SUNDAY.................REGARDS.....

J.KANNAN, M.Com, FIATA

"WE DON'T THINK TO BREATHE

 WE BREATHE TO THINK"

MAKE YOUR THOUGHTS POWERFUL.............

A VERY GOOD SUNDAY READ.........................

MAKE YOUR THOUGHTS POWERFUL IN ORDER TO FOCUS& GUIDE YOUR MIND IN RIGHT DIRECTION TO ACHIEVE YOUR LIFE’S MISSION..............

Mind is the master of human body. The mind, it is said, are of two kinds, pure and impure the former when free from the contact with lust and the latter when in contact with lust. Mind alone is the cause of bondage and liberation for men. If attached to the worldly affairs it becomes bound. If free from the worldly affairs it is liberation.

If thoughts are not dissipated, if mind is not perplexed then there is no fear while being watchful. Guard your thoughts, as they are difficult to perceive. Thoughts well guarded will bring happiness. Whenever and wheresoever the restless and unsteady mind may wander away, withdraw it from there and bring it under the control of Self. He whose passions are quieted, and mind perfectly tranquil, who has become one with the Supreme, being freed from all impurities to such a person, comes supreme bliss. Thus constantly holding the mind steadfast, the person whose sins are shaken off, easily attains the infinite bliss, born of contact with Supreme

Please take note that.........The above are not human statements but are taken from Holy and divine writings from ancient scriptures for the benefit and betterment of mankind.

The most potent thing to mould human life is thought. Thought is the motive power behind every action and its reaction of body, mind and senses and it is not actively limited to physical organism or its immediate surroundings It encircles vaster regions, and the variation of mind which exists arise from the difference in the development of the mind, which is its conveying medium. The power of thought in some minds shines effulgence than through others. The use and abuse of thoughts determines the destiny of man. When thought is rightly controlled and directed it lifts one ever higher and higher and if done in the reverse trend it drags down and prevents the growth. Thought is a creative force and if our mind is fixed on things, which are trivial, and unwholesome, very soon you will find your whole nature is coloured by them. On the contrary when the mind is fixed on lofty ideas, our nature is inevitably uplifted and transformed.

All our activities are preceded by thoughts. First we think, then we act and it becomes impossible for one to refrain from committing mistakes or evil deeds without paying proper heed to thoughts. It is very important to think consciously- an impulse comes, a desire awakens in the mind and immediately the whole thought is carried away by it, it takes the possession of the mind as if the man has surrendered himself to it. However when the mind is controlled and discriminative, one can avoid such dangers –Make right thinking a habit, it will help to perform all our duties in a right way. Right thinking will help us in awakening our intuition, establishing the tranquility in our whole being and cultivating strength of mind. This is what we need in order to think rightly.

We have certain responsibility in life and to meet this ably, we must learn to understand and you cannot acquire the understanding without bringing our thoughts under our control and mastering our mind introspective-in other words without gaining the power of concentrated thought. Think diligently and learn to adjust the forces within you-Find out and analyze what are your needs and defects, what are the causes of our mental disturbances and distractions and this can be done only when we look within us with clean thoughts and clear mind.

There can be no peace and rest for us until our mind is well connected and focused. A person who is tired and wants rest, lying on a soft bed, yet he finds no rest. Why? The reason is his forces are scattered, thoughts are distracted and unable to quiet his mind even though his body is totally free from activities. Some people are under the impression that resting means doing absolutely nothing- The mind is restless, to quiet it we must give up all thoughts, but cannot give up thinking as the mind will always be engaged in thinking something. Direct your mind only towards restful and subtle thoughts. When the mind is directed towards elevating objects, it will grow calm, serene and strong. This can be achieved through constant mental discipline. In the beginning it may be little difficult but as you try to focus your thoughts you will find how dissipated they are and this is nothing but the result of our own unconscious habits of thinking. To surmount these, cultivate counter habits for all thinking is a matter of habit.

There are 4 kinds of help, which can be rendered to our fellow beings.

1. You may give food, clothes or money to a needy man- GOOD THING.

2. Offer education as education helps a man to open his eyes, teaches him to take care of himself as it gives him knowledge- GREAT THING.

3. To save a man’s life, indeed a GREATEST THING- but death may seize him at any moment.

4. Teach a man how to control and direct his thought properly and rightly so that he may gain understanding or wisdom, for this will save his soul. HIGHEST THING.

The first three forms of helps are unquestionably very good. But only the permanent help is to give people the mastery over all their powers so that they can stand on their own feet and work out their own salvation.

This however, cannot be accomplished in a day or by chance. We can acquire it only through regular practice. Our thought is such a mighty factor in our daily living, that one single thought in the morning can fill our whole day either with happiness and joy or with gloom and depression. All our power and all our weakness come from this one source. All the results we attain are according to our thoughts. It is the thought that determines the true value of every act. Therefore ever remain and live with pure essence of thoughts and tranquility of mind.

All the very Best to ALL................Yours in DIVINE FRIENDSHIP..............

J.KANNAN, M.Com, FIATA

"WE DON'T THINK TO BREATHE
WE BREATHE TO THINK"

Somethings to know & Understand.......................For Better REALISATION.

Somethings to know & Understand.......................For Better REALISATION.

A rich man looked through his window and saw a poor man picking something from his dustbin & ... He said,................ Thank GOD I'm not poor.

The poor man looked around and saw a naked man misbehaving on the street ... He said,............ Thank GOD I'm not mad.

The mad man looked ahead and saw an ambulance carrying a patient .&.. He said,.......... Thank GOD am not sick.

Then a sick person in hospital saw a trolley taking a dead body to the mortuary .&............ He said,...................... Thank GOD I'm not dead.

Only a dead person cannot thank God.

Why don't you thank GOD today for all your blessings and for the gift of life........& ... for another beautiful day.

*What is LIFE*?...........

To understand life better, you have to know and visit 3 locations :..............

1. Hospital

2. Prison

3. Cemetery

At the Hospital, you will understand that nothing is more beautiful than HEALTH.

In the Prison, you'll see that FREEDOM is the most precious thing.........&.............

At the Cemetery, you will realize that life is worth nothing..........&........ The ground that we walk today will be our roof tomorrow.

Sad Truth ..............BUT REAL TRUTH........... We all come with "nothing" and we will go with nothing .................. Let us, therefore, remain....... simple........humble...... and be thankful......... grateful to God at all times for everything.

 

J.KANNAN, M.Com, FIATA

 "WE DON'T THINK TO BREATHE

 WE BREATHE TO THINK"

You are really special......Turn your light ON..& Get ready for a Happy Compromise.......with one another.

This write-up in less than 30 minutes is as a result of a post lunch thought came to my mind.............skipping my post noon NAP. Today........................JK

You are really special......Turn your light ON..& Get ready for a Happy Compromise.......with one another.

Look around you Right now,............... someone is changing your life. You may not even realize it, but it's happening. Just like you affect others, they affect your life too. There's a constant exchange of energy going on all around you.

Fortunately, some of the people you come across have a very specific mission. They are light people, and their mission is to light up the world. Strangely, sometimes they don't even know it themselves. It just so happens that they bring light wherever they go. They may not realize their part in it, and think it's just coincidence. However, when they actually recognize and realize the power of light, they can use it in positive ways....It may look like a magic!!!! Nevertheless light is, and it can be used in many ways. We can use it to shine on the dark corners of life - or we can cut the light out entirely.......then again It's our choice.

Imagine that you are entering a dark place. Would you turn the light on to find your way? If other people were there, would you turn the light off just because they didn't have their own? If you had to stay there with those other people, could you cause the light to shine just for you alone?..........Never workable and indeed impossible.Being a light person means that you shine, and you help others shine. Like a candle lighting another, you don't lose power by doing so, you increase the light with every candle that is lit - with every person that you help.

We are strange creatures.................. Animals have no hesitation in getting to know one another. We, on the other hand, sometimes need extraordinary circumstances. We may see the same people day after day for years on the bus, on the street, in the building where we live or work, and never even say hello. But if a disaster of some kind happens, these are the very people who would probably save us or vice versa.........Then Why wait?...... Smile, it is very good for you! Bring down the defenses and differences if at all any........... make the first step. Say hello to someone. Be a light in the world!

I do believe that there is good in everyone. I believe that people become trustworthy when you give them trust. I don't want to be judged so I don't judge. I treat others like I would like to be treated, and I have to say that I never regretted being that way.................And...........

Now that you know that you have the power to shine, will you turn your light on and come together? Please do.....and Wishing only Well to ALL.....Its your DIVINE FRIEND...................

J.KANNAN

"WE DON'T THINK TO BREATHE

 WE BREATHE TO THINK"

 

Try and understand this subtle facts............

Dear ALL........

Try and understand this subtle facts..............

Without dream we reach nothing............. Without love, we feel nothing.............. And without God, we are

nothing............&..............

People were created to be loved. Things were created to be used. The reason why the world is in chaos is ......because things are being loved and people are being used.

Whatever is worrying you right now, forget about it. Take a deep breath, stay positive and know that things will get better.......& have positive belief always.

In life, learn always to find out things straight from the horse’s mouth and not listen to the jackass spreading the gossip.

J.KANNAN, M.Com, FIATA

"WE DON'T THINK TO BREATHE

 WE BREATHE TO THINK"

Good days and bad days are a part of life..........

Good days and bad days are a part of life...................................

Remember.................Good days and bad days are a part of life.....and are INEVITABLE.............. Therefore Stay positive.....bold and enthused ................... and you will be happy.

Everything happens for a reason........... That reason can cause changes............. Sometimes it may hurt...........&.......... Sometimes it may be hard and harsh. But in the end it is all for the best...............Maintain...............TRUST in GOD &  FAITH in YOU.

All Birds find shelter during a rain. But Eagle avoids rain by flying above the Clouds...........Similarly............ Problems are common, but attitude makes the difference.....and therefore maintain a high altitude with positive outlook

Don’t underestimate any one because they are quiet. They know more than what they say, think more than they speak and observe more than you know....................&...............

Always Remember.................Good days and bad days are a part of life.............. Stay positive.....bold and enthused ................... and you will be happy.

 

J.KANNAN, M.Com, FIATA

"WE DON'T THINK TO BREATHE

 WE BREATHE TO THINK"